Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Doha,Dallas, Austin...India

The end of summer is here. The speed limit in school zones is back to 20 mph. Temperatures are easing up.  My Doha friends are finishing with their return jet lag. Facebook is filled with back to school pictures. Yes. Goodbye summer "vacation".  Our container from Doha traveled the ocean all summer and is supposed to arrive in our driveway today. There is a sense of closure that surrounds the delivery of 9 years in the Middle East.  Today, before putting Robert on the bus to Austin where he will be met by his brother Russell and then start college on Monday, we will sort through and identify the boxes that will be stored here in the attic and those that will be moved to Austin on Friday.   Granted it's not a huge container but still the task overwhelms me.  Vaguely I remember the contents and I do have the inventory list but still...actual items and sizes of boxes are not in this brain.  The summer has been good though. Time to reconnect with friends.  To be with our family in Kansas. Road trips. Buc-eys, Doha reunions and Abu Dhabi ones, too,  Dallas restaurants, long conversations, movies, laughter, tears, stories, hugs..and Mike getting a job.  In India. I hope to join him once the crazy here is sorted out.  I guess I'll have to change the name of my blog.  I actually  started this to have a chronicle for my kids. They were pretty young when we left the states.  Friends have told me to keep writing so I guess I will.  Been brainstorming a new name for it though.  Sandy land won't work in Mumbai. Guess I'll get my creative kids on that... My creative juices aren't flowing right now.  Perhaps by the time I join Mike in India...hopefully by end of September, I will have a new title for a new adventure. 

One of the many wonderful memories  from summer that I will take with me.. Shari and I holding our great nieces for the first time . 

Friday, July 8, 2016

30 Days of Summer

His name is Sarge. Every morning he greets me on the porch.  There is something comforting about this friendly brown lab with the stubby tail and the lolling tongue.  Mom's front porch, overlooking the fields with a 180 degree view that goes for miles, has been a a safe place for me for 35 years.  A place to breathe and think and pray.  And even with Mom Hildebrand gone now (and me missing her very much) it still is that comforting place .
While I sit on the porch I'm thinking about the month we've been back in the U.S.  The busyness of it , yes, but also just the familiarity of everything. The grocery store always has what I'm looking for,  the nearby park with green grass and green trees to take walks in the early morning cool air, highways that go for miles and miles and bring you home, radio stations, movies, family, friends, fresh breezes, and resounding thunderstorms. I've been taking it all in this month.   
Future plans are still fuzzy but these weeks in Texas and Kansas have me feeling less fragile and vulnerable. God knows what is next...so I'll keep,praying, enjoying our family and friends, and periodically petting Sarge on the front porch.

On the way to Kansas.  Can you say, "Kids in a Candy Store?"

Sallie, Katie, her boyfriend, Rem, Robert and Lindsey after a great meal in Hudson, Kansas

Sunning by the Sandpit with an interesting audience.....


Laughter, S'mores and the 4 th of July with family. Nothing beats it.

Sallie and Robert setting up some explosives. 

Friday, June 10, 2016

Goodbye Doha


In the great brown desert
There were
Shisha Users and
White land cruisers
Swaying palm trees 
And Bright blue seas
Camel hair and 
Call to Prayer
In the great brown desert where the road construction never ends
There were mosques and thobes and 
Pakistani robes
Shoes at the door and marble on the floor
The early morning sun and Kareem Ramadan
Sand dune hills and dune bashing spills
Huge yellow bear,
Raging sandstorm air
Malls everywhere

Goodbye shisha users 
Goodbye land cruisers
Goodbye swaying palm trees and bright blue seas
Goodbye camel hair
Good bye call to prayer
Goodbye mosques, and thobes,
And Pakistani robes
Goodbye shoes on marble floors and 
Early Ramadan sun
Goodbye dune hills and dune bashing spills
Yellow bear
And sandy air
Goodbye malls everywhere
Goodbye road construction that never ends
And good bye to precious, amazing friends...until we meet again.