Monday, September 10, 2007

Sept. 11

Woke up today. Took Ryan to school. On the way I said to him...today is Sept. 11. "Yeah...I know," he said, "Wonder if they will mention it at school. Probably not." But we are thinking about it. Such a day in the US but just another day over here. Very surreal.

Still feeling a bit surreal in a lot of ways. Like the Ladies Bible Study I attended yesterday. I have always wanted to do a Beth Moore study so I am taking one over here. It's about the Tabernacle and she has just redone it. Anyway, there are 27 women in the study and although there are several from different countries, the surreal part is that about 8 of us are from Texas! :) Mostly Houston...and mostly oil..but still, kind of fun to meet other Texans. I am looking forward to the Study.

Today I will go to our church and meet the ladies there. It is the kick off brunch for the fall studies. Sallie and Robert will work on school here and then I will work with them when I get home...so Sandyland ISD is still on track. The computer curriculum we are using is working well for us, although next year I would like to try and get them in school here.

Because the setting up house stuff is about done...(except a phone) things are slowing down and both Mike and I are hitting that "we really miss our friends" wall. As are the kids. Please pray for us. We are plugging in and all but it is still not home. You can't replace what we had there...and especially not in 3 weeks.

Love you all.
Mattie

Saturday, September 8, 2007

Charades

Yesterday Mike and I took Sallie and Robert to the beach. One of the other Project Directors from Hill invited several Hill employees and their families to a beach party. It was very nice...and a much needed break from shopping. (Ryan didn't come because he went to the first youth group meeting at church...another story...) Anyway, we swam in water that was about hot tub temp. and then felt much cooler when we got out. One of the ladies from the office planned games. My favorite was charades...How can I describe this? First of all, about 12 adults and kids jumped up to play...no shyness here. Most were filipino or indian. All of them with big smiles and 100 percent participation. Sallie played too. They did movies....nobody remembered to say how many words, everyone pretty much talked while acting it out...and generally if one was guessed it was a total fluke. Mike and I laughed..but not rudely. My favorite part though was when Mike leaned over and said..."This is what it's like at the office everyday...." I'm still chuckling. So thankful my sweet hubby has not lost his sense of humor...and believe me, sometimes it is hard to laugh.

Take today for instance...We have spent over 8 hours trying to get our phone set up. Had to buy a desktop computer, Ryan and Mike set it up and voila..it didn't work. So, Mike and i went back to my favorite place...the Mall...and tried to return it. We went to the customer service place by the electronic section. Waited in line. And then we were told that the place to return it was on the other side of the store...opposite of the electronics..ok. So we wait in line for about 50 minutes. When Mike gets up there they unpack the whole box and plug it in. There are several people around waiting, the service return place is a small room..and they plug it in. Apparently, after we were told to come back in another 30 minutes while they fixed it and rebooted it, BECAUSE they needed to use a diptor...no, wait, that must be an ADAPTOR cuz it doesn't work without it...Hmmm....Ok....Next time it would be nice if they told a customer that WHEN they bought it...but oh well. Now, Mike is still working on it...but soon we should be done.

So, we ALMOST have a phone. Yee hah. :)

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Early Friday Morning

It's the early morning here...I woke up just before the first call to prayer. I like the silence of the city in the early mornings. Just the odd car or two on the street...the buildings all dark. A different place in the early mornings.

Last nite we went to ACS-the American Community School-where Ryan attends. They hosted a New Family Dinner. Mistakenly and narrowsightedly I assumed they'd serve something American. :) Why do we assume those things? I think of myself as you know...big worldview, international and all that...but still, my first thought was maybe they will serve hamburgers. :) Nope, it was not hamburgers. It was little shish kbobs, and a very flavorful rice, and veggies, and some breaded chicken. It was very tasty and very international, which is what that school is...very international.. There was another Hildebrand there..definitely original Germans..not like us, a mixed breed. :)..and Jordanians, Indonesians, Texans, New Yorkers, South Africans, French,etc, etc. It's overwhelming and energizing all at the same time.

Speaking of food, night before last we took the family to dinner at a Lebanese restaurant...The Lebanonese Flower(as you can see the cooking thing comes in spurts...I've enjoyed not cooking for a couple of days...:)). It was very tasty. A huge platter of grilled meats, a bottomless basket of pita bread and an appetizer of fresh vegetables(which are ok to eat here...water is desalinized so much safer for weak American digestive tracks) and mint tea after dinner. Memories of Morocco all over the place....For a second we thought Sallie was eating a pigeon wing, as they had pigeon on the menu, but darn it! it was just a chicken wing...Wish you could have seen her face for those few seconds of unknown....priceless.

Today the kids classes start at church...technically it is what we call Sunday school but since we attend church on Friday..they just call the classes Explorers. We are invited to a company beach party this afternoon. I am looking forward to that as well. Hope it's sunny...hah! First time it rains here I'm out there in it!

Blessings!

Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Almost

So, we have our friend Dennis over for dinner last nite. We asked him if we were to have a bench built for our corner window would it be done right? He smiled and said Almost. This made us laugh because that is exactly what we had been talking about earlier.

You see, our new speakers had blown out and we took them to be fixed at this store that had been recommended to us. The guy fixed them easy as could be...and we were thrilled. Well, when Mike and Ryan went to set them up again...Wouldn't you know the guy fixed it, but then put the back on upside down...it was fixed..Almost. And my washer/dryer...well, the dryer still vents into the ceiling...they never fixed it...so it runs...Almost. Our stove top has 3 burners that work... So, you get the picture.

Tonight we had a sidetable/buffet delivered...in pieces. They put it together in the apt. It's a pretty piece made of mahogany that we are using for a TV table. The guy worked two or more hours putting it together, even assembling the drawers right here. All except for the 3 last handles. Didn't have all the parts. And we wanted holes in the back piece for cords, etc. So after two hours he said he'd be right back. Hmmmm...we sat there and waited for 2 hours. Both Mike and Ryan said he wouldn't be back with the parts to finish...I said, give them until 10pm and then I'll say they aren't coming....I love this part...at 9:50 the doorbell rings and there is a different guy with the rest of the parts. ( I loved the look on their faces!) So he puts the drawer handles on and then begins to put the holes in the back with the wrong kind of saw and rips of the wood on the back panel. We have a lovely TV cabinet...Almost. They are supposed to come back with the new back to put on. We'll see. May end up like the dryer. Oh well.

We also bought a beautiful carved bookcase that was delivered today. We think they just finished staining it before they brought it over. Our books are on it with pictures from home. We are nearly done shopping. Amen and amen.

It's starting to feel more like home...Almost.

Sunday, September 2, 2007

Response from Mike to Darren's Pants issues

One would have thought that the zipper on the side would have tipped him off.

Internet, Internet, Internet

Dare I say that Mike's face lit up like Highland Park at Christmas this morning? The internet guy came and we are all set up!! Mike even danced into Ryan's room to tell him...(yes, he danced). (Ryan is home sick today from school..I'm not sure the dancing helped much, but the internet did!:)) So we are now connected.

Sallie's bed also showed up yesterday. and the tv. We are almost done with the house setting up thing. I for one will be very glad to be done shopping...:) Once I figure out how to cook on this very slow stovetop we will be ready for guests. That's if I can figure out more than 3 recipes to make. Ryan did help with dinner last nite...found a good recipe and I went and searched out the ingredients. That's the hard part. It took us about 2 hours in the kitchen to prepare dinner...ummmm...that ranks right up there with shopping for me. But it was fun to cook with Ryan. Maybe there is a Super Suppers or Dinner Station around here. It's a thought. :)

(In closing, may I address Darren Ford's blog of recent days? If you have not read the most recent of his blogs...fordsinbulgaria.org....you may want to check them out....but take them with a grain of salt. He is WAYYYY more competitive than me...and he definitely wins in the pants contest. Really, I am fine with that. I will say that it was one of my finer moments though...Especially when I discovered my pants were on inside out while we were sitting in the bank and Mike had his nice suit on...etc. etc.)

So, praise the Lord for internet. Will write more as it happens.
With love from Sandyland.....
Mattie, Mike, Ryan, Sallie and Robert

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Hurray!

Ok, so my washer is working now! We still have a slight problem with the dryer..It is vented into the kitchen ceiling. but we do have a washer!!

Sallie and Robert and I went to a movie yesterday...after we went shopping for rugs...sigh. We saw Nancy Drew and it was very relaxing. Not the best movie ever but definitely a nice break. Hardest part was coming out of the theater and realizing we were halfway around the world. Still, it was fun.

I now have curtains up in our bedroom and Sallie's. Just a bit longer and we may be settled. The sheets are getting a bit old. :)

Sunday, August 26, 2007

The Elevator

No, still no internet or washer but please remember to thank the Lord for Jeff and Mary and their kind, generous hearts...as here I am again...doing laundry and using their computer. :)

On our way out to the car today I actually met someone on the elevator...It is very rare to see other people in our apt. building for some reason. Her name is June Ko (my spelling) and I think she may be from Korea. We smiled at each other and I asked her how long she has been here. She said she was very new...only two weeks. I laughed and said.."Us, too!" She gave me a beautiful smile. Perhaps a new friend.

Yesterday we spent the day at the Beach with Jeff and Mary...(can you tell we rely on them?) and it was so relaxing. That evening we went to IKEA again to buy curtains...good thing we had some down time at the beach cuz IKEA was a beating...again. :) We did find some curtains to use for Sallie's room. She is doing a brown and turquoise theme for her room. She wants a swing chair to put in the corner(thanks Luella) and we are dreading it cuz the roof is cement block....That will be fun to hang. After we find a rug for Robert's room he will be done. He has a great raised bunk bed with a desk underneath and his own half bath. His room is small but just right for him.

Slowly but surely...new friends, new place...we are getting there. We love you all. Mattie

Friday, August 24, 2007

Our new friends, Jeff and Mary invited us over today after church to catch up on our emails and stuff... Sallie and Robert are playing with their kids. So, I thought I would take a minute to update the Blog. Jeff and Mary are the couple that saved Mike's sanity when they offered their house to stay in while they were in the US. They have a dog and this makes Sallie very happy. :)

The sermon today...our first service here in Abu Dhabi was called Lord, I've Got Another Problem...it was from Isaiah and he preached on Hezekiah. It made me laugh though cuz just last nite Mike said, "Mattie, everytime I think we have a problem solved something else goes wrong." :) He's right, you know.

We had our washer installed finally last nite. It took 4 hours and 5 guys to put it in....and then they all left and I went to finally do some laundry and we noticed that it took forever for the tub to fill. OOPS the water was draining as we were filling the tub...so no laundry yet. We will call the guy again. And then the phone Mike got Ryan isn't working. Just got that yesterday. Ok, so we are still trying to get internet and the company says there are no ports. So just what does that mean exactly...well, we will let you know when we figure it out.

But, on the plus side...Sallie's new phone works and she is a happy preteen...a pink Razor phone. The sink is no longer draining onto my feet...another plus. And the guy who is going to fix my stovetop also came by and will soon install my new burner so that I don't throw a breaker whenever I use that burner. See, things are also going well....just sort of a two steps forward and one step backwards. :) Ryan likes school and has good teachers. Our apt. is bright and sunny. We have beds and furniture. And we are really making friends with our building maintenance guy. :) Oh, and Robert got to have Dunkin Donuts today before church. Just like Texas.

Speaking of church....our first Friday service. I love the international feel...filipinos, chinese, indians, americans, south africans, british, germans, and so on....It was cool. (Well, not cool in the temp. sense but very fun to be worshipping with so many different believers) We were a bit late so came down to the front of the room...about the size of E122 at Bent Tree and the music started. We were all standing...Mike, Robert, and Ryan up front and Sallie and I just behind....I saw Ryan lean over to Mike and quickly they both sat down. Not a soul behind them could see the overhead...It was like standing behind a wall. I smiled as I remembered April Burk always telling Mike to move over cuz she couldn't see the screens. :) So the boys sat thru all the music...:) My friend Mary said that 17 different congregations meet in that building. As we were leaving the filipino congregation was coming in...and after them the indian church and then there is the Ethiopian group and the Chinese...and so on. I keep thinking of that song...He Reigns...

So, that was our first service. When you guys are at church on Sunday, Ryan will be at school and Mike will be at work...well, not really, as we will be done with our day by the time you go to church but still it is strange to not go to church on Sundays. By the way, we went to Fuddruckers for burgers after church. Kind of fun, huh?

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Community

I don't have much time but before we move over to the apt. and are out of touch I wanted to share something I was reading this morning. If I don't do it now I may forget it....surely not. :) Life is lived in the community of family and friends, and friends of friends, and they all help each other in the business of everyday life. Beautiful, huh? This is from the book...Miniskirts, Mothers and Muslims by Christine Mallouhi on describing Arab family culture. But I know it is our culture too.... because I just lived it for 16 years in Carrollton, TX. We are so blessed. Ok, on with our day....Hope we have internest soon. :) Mattie

Black Ice

I'm wondering how many folks are reading these...but I am having fun writing them.

Bet this title caught your attention...So, this morning I'm rushing out the door to meet Mike at the American School for our early appointment. I have all the paperwork for all 3 kids in one hand and the car keys in the other. The housekeeper and her husband were cleaning the patio. Now, before you jump ahead...take note here...I DID see the water on the brown tile at the bottom of the patio steps...at the bottom of the white marble patio steps...Yep! Feet went out and I landed smack on my bottom. Oh my goodness..my rear still hurts but thankfully I didn't crack my head open or break a bone. Paperwork got slightly wet but still legible. Looks like they also have room for Ryan but don't know yet for sure. I think that school would be a good fit. And now I know to be careful around water and marble. I never once slipped on black ice in Texas. :)

Ryan and I tried Mexican food at a different Mall yesterday. We had Quesadillas. Not bad actually, and the Guacamole was pretty good. Sallie and Robert did not join us at the mall because they are so malled out that they couldn't be forced into coming. Can't say that I blame them.

Watched television last nite. The History Channel. Jesus' Jerusalem. Kept thinking that maybe we will get to go there. It is still quite surreal being in this part of the world. Sometimes I look out the window of this home and see the palm trees and it hits me..wow, after 4 years we are here. It is western in so many ways and then it isn't.

Today Ryan and I ventured to another curtain store. I just want simple but ornate seems to be more popular. Maybe blinds is the way to go. Sigh.

Tomorrow we move to our apt. We don't know when we will have internet so keep checking back for my next entry. Hopefully it won't take too long.

I'll write when I can.
Mattie

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

A Week Ago Today...

Can it only be a week ago that we headed to the airport with most of our luggage and a zillion wonderful friends? Well, technically, since you are 9 hours earlier, it hasn't been a week..but here it is Wed. so I'm counting it. :)

In this week I said good-bye to my oldest son, flew halfway around the world, reunited with the best guy in the world, shopped until I could puke, slept tons, cooked a couple of meals..nothing fancy but at least edible, drove in a foreign country without crashing, beat my second son at pool and Scrabble, played the longest game of UNO on record with Sallie and Robert, blogged for the first time, talked to numerous salesmen without understanding a word...and they are supposedly speaking English, had a guest over for dinner,....slept some more, and checked into schools.

Our first week in a nutshell. Today Ryan wants to explore...and not at a mall. Oh boy. Friday we move into our apt. Don't know when we will have internet. Ryan tests for school on Sunday. Please keep him in your prayers!

Lots of love,
Mattie

Monday, August 13, 2007

I'm Driving....

Yep...I am. Drove to the grocery store with the kids. Didn't have money to buy groceries so we toured and then I took them home. Mike called and said I could use my visa card. Drove back to the store and shopped. Got into check out line...forgot that I didn't have my Card with me. Drove back home...got the card....bought the groceries...drove home. Is it any wonder that I forgot two suitcases in Texas? On the positive side...didn't back into anything or lock my keys in the car. So I paid 70 dollars for about 40 dollars worth of food...oh well. At this stage in the game I am just glad we are eating! (and we recognize the food....) (have yet to try camel's milk...can't say it is high on the list)(have also not even seen a camel yet....)

Ok, so we are still furniture shopping. Thought we found our couch and stuff tonite but Mike thought we should bargain cuz they respect that kind of stuff...ummm..nope the guy didn't even bother to respond. Oops. We will probably go back and buy it anyway but it is kind of humbling. :)

Mike and I also went to one of the schools today. They have room for Ryan but not for Sallie and Robert. So we will try the other school on Wednesday. We will see.

Well, it is getting my bedtime. Thanks everyone for your support and love. By the way, looks like we may get our missing luggage sooner than we thought. Some friends of ours who we met thru the Hones are coming back at the end of August and have offered to help us. What a wonderful blessing. The Hones are getting the stuff to them. You know, this has sure been a group effort...in more ways than one. :)

Love, Mattie

Saturday, August 11, 2007

Day 2...Shopping

Although we didn't get to finish everything....we did have fun shopping. Ok, FUN may be a strong word here...but we were together and did get a lot of our stuff. We went to the UAE Walmart which is Carrefour and to IKEA. Both of these stores are in the Marina Mall. Huge, beautiful...and very North Dallas. :)
I'm not sure my kids will get the whole third world thing from living here...In many ways it's just like home....Jaguars, Porshes, Mercedes, expensive stores, beautiful buildings and so on....but then you hear the groaning cry of the Imam calling the faithful to prayer or you walk by another set of women dressed from head to toe in black...with only their eyes showing above their scarves.... And then I am reminded that God called us here.

Pictures from yesterday.....the Abu Dhabi Port with an oil platform right in front of me. Must be here for maintenance...huge. The skyline of the city as we looked at it from the other side of the bay...the most amazing buildings I have ever seen..they are really into architecture....The Marina Mall....Lunch with just Mike and me at the Expat hangout in the very Western type grocery store and drining the best Choc. Shake I have ever had.....Shopping for beds and spending all day to come home with nothing....Ryan asking for local food for dinner...He and Mike ate Swarmas..a sort of lamb wrap.

And then the last picture...but one I will hopefully never forget....Smiling at a Muslim woman wrapped in black and her total shock and double take when she saw me smile. It is very difficult to smile at someone wrapped in black with only eyes showing but I decided I needed to start somewhere. Perhaps a smile can communicate Christ's love.

Here's to a new day in Sandyland....Please keep us in your prayers.
With love,
Mattie

Friday, August 10, 2007

First Impressions

It is HOT here! As Ryan and I stood by the baggage waiting for Mike, Sallie and Robert to bring the car around...his exact words were..."Mom, I have never been this hot and it's midnite!" I must agree. :)

Trip over went well. The Dallas Frankfurt leg was a beating but we managed. Poor Ryan had to eat his knees for the 10 hours but other than that we did well. Sallie and Robert crashed in the airport and I had to literally shake them awake....I was jealous, what can I say?

Spent our first day...sleeping in. Then Mike and I ran back to the airport to pick up a forgotten suitcase. When we got out of the car to walk to the terminal I once again commented on the heat. Mike mentioned "Oh yeah, we always walk in the shade...." I quickly moved under the awning...and then laughed....still really, really hot(not sure what I was hoping for there...my normal optimism kicking in????) After picking up the suitcase we went back to the house where we are so thankful to be staying and picked up the kids.

We went to see our apt. It is great! Cheerful and although small compared to our home n Dallas, it will be just right for us. Marble floors and bright white and cream walls. Lots of light and from one window in the living room we can see the Persian Gulf. I find that amazing... The kitchen has plenty fo cabinet space which surprised surprised me and a nice dish washer...Yee Hah.

We visited the Abu Dhabi Mall. Pretty much find anythng you need. Which for that trip was clothes for Ryan as we left his suitcase in Bonnie's living room. Ummm, where were my friends with brains when I really needed them??? Hmmm? Good thing Bonnie is coming in Sept. Good grief. I am just glad I got here with all three kids..and so is Mike, by the way. It was wonderful to see his tall self when we walked out of the baggage area. Smiling and waving.

We had Pizza Hut and Baskin Robbins for a late lunch or early dinner. Mike said today it will be Indian Curry to give Robert a taste of reality. :) He talks big but I figure it will be Mcdonalds.....I'll let you know.

Gee, it's 5:30 am. Just finished trying to get the kids to go back to sleep...Robert just came in to sit with me. Ryan and Sallie are trying to sleep again. Ahhh yes. Jet lag is a beautiful thing. We've all been up since about 4am. Ugh.

I don't want to get all mushy but let me just say how much all of you mean to us. To know you are praying. The memories of all of you at the airport. The incredible help we had this summer. Ok, I am getting mushy but it has to be said. We love you all. Please keep praying. Today we shop for furniture. And you know how I lovvvveeeee shopping. Sigh. :)

Missing all of you, but glad to be here. Hardest thing? Missing Russell.
Love, Mattie (for the Abu Dhabi Hildebrands)

Thursday, August 9, 2007

The inaugural post

Well, this is Russell setting this up for his lovely mom, I hope ya'll enjoy it.